But that couldn't be further from the truth. In fact, the truth is that "the grass isn't always greener" even though it looks like it might be. The truth is that delayed gratification (learning to wait) is much better for you. The truth is that we should be focused on others instead of ourselves. The truth is that we don't deserve a thing.
Because we get all of that backwards, we tend to grumble and complain because we just aren't thankful for what we do have.
And let me tell you what, we all have much to be thankful for. Yes, even if we're living on the street, abandoned by every last family member and friend, we still have much to be thankful for.
The truth is - God shows his lovingkindness toward us every single day. And, when we accept His gift of salvation, He saves us from the depths of Hell. And the truth is, we don't deserve it.
David points these things out in Psalm 86:
12 I will give thanks to You, O Lord my God, with all my heart,
And will glorify Your name forever.
13 For Your lovingkindness toward me is great
And You have delivered my soul from the depths of Sheol
This is the reason we should be thankful!
Ever single moment!
Because He loves us so much, God literally snatches ('delivers' Strong's H5337) our souls from the hand of the devil. Because of that, we never have to see, we never have to live through the eternal destruction of Hell.
It is absolutely beautiful isn't it?
Especially when we have done nothing to deserve it...